Boston Career Counselor Blog

Okay, I know what you may be saying.  I’m a career counselor.  I’m supposed to recommend networking to help people find a job.  So enough already!

But here’s the great thing that many people may not realize about networking: Not only do you get better at it the more you do (many people will tell you this), but even better is that the more networking you do, the more FUN it gets!

I mean, think about it.  People pay lots of money, buy lots of drinks, stress themselves out to plan events and parties.   And why do they do it?  Because it’s fun to interact with friends AND potential friends.  Most parties are made up of people who know each other and some who don’t, but it’s enjoyable talking to old and new friends.

That’s the thing about networking, even networking as part of your job search.  It doesn’t end when you leave the official “Career Networking Group.”  The best networking is a mindset.  It’s an attitude toward all the interesting, potentially fascinating (and yes, potentially helpful on the career front) people around you all the time!

Go forth.  Talk to people.  Make new friends.  Have interesting conversations.  And, when the time is right, you should probably mention that you’re looking for a job, but that must be secondary for the most successful informal networking.  Connect with the person, and then of course feel free to confidently answer the question, “So what you do?” and see where it leads.  And even if you don’t get a job, you just met a pretty cool person.  Isn’t that great?!?

And that’s why I love networking!